Emotional Hunger
12 Types That Make You Break Your Diet

Most people break their diets because of emotional hunger. This hunger surfaces when you're seeking comfort and nurturing - but not getting it.

This can happen for a number of reasons - lack of comforting skills, ingrained habits, etc. However the bottom line is that emotional eating and hunger causes weight problems.

The following article is reprinted with permission from the Shrink Yourself online emotional eating program.

It outlines 12 different types of emotional hunger that cause us to break our diets. Do you give in to any of these types of emotional hunger?

If you use food in any of the ways listed below, you'll know that Emotional Eating is the real reason you struggle with weight.

Type 1. Food: My Adult Pacifier

If you get really hungry when you feel angry, depressed, anxious, bored, or lonely, you use food to dull the pain that these emotions cause.

Type 2. I Stick Up For Myself by Stuffing Myself Up

If you react by getting hungry when others talk down to you, take advantage of you, belittle you, or take you for granted, you eat to avoid confrontation.

Type 3. Food: My One Faithful Friend

If you crave food when you have tension in your close relationships, you eat to avoid feeling the pain of rejection or anger.

Type 4. When I'm Chewing I Can't Hear My Inner Critic

If you tend to become hypercritical of yourself, if you label yourself "stupid," "lazy," or "a loser," you eat to stuff down self-hatred.

Type 5. I Don't Have Love but I Have Food

If your hunger gets activated because your intimate relationships don't satisfy some basic need like trust or security, you use food to try to fill the gap.

Type 6. Food Can't Fill Up the Missing Parts in My Past

If you eat to make up for the deprivation you experienced as a child, you eat to forget the past.

Type 7. Don't Tell Me What to Eat

If you eat to assert your independence because you don't want anyone telling you what to do, you eat to rebel.

Type 8. I'm Too Busy Eating to Take a Risk

If your appetite kicks in when you're faced with new challenges - if you use food to avoid rising to the test, you eat to protect yourself from the fear of failure.

Type 9. Fall in Love? I'd Rather Fall in Chocolate

If you stuff your face in order to avoid your sexuality - either to stay overweight so that nobody desires you or to hide from intimate encounters - you eat to protect yourself from getting too close.

Type 10. I Use My Body as a Battleground

Emotional eaters often eat to pay back those who have hurt them, often in the distant past. They use their bodies as battlegrounds for working out old resentments. If you do this, you eat to get revenge or control anger.

Type 11. I Won't Grow Up

If you eat to make yourself feel carefree, like a child, you eat to keep yourself from facing the challenges of growing up.

Type 12. I'm Secretly Afraid of Being Thin

If you overeat because you fear getting thin, either consciously or unconsciously, you eat to avoid the fear of change.

Emotional hunger is real. It's part of life for everyone. If you address the things that make you emotionally hungry, you'll have a chance of having real satisfaction in your life.

But if you eat each time you're emotionally hungry, you'll miss the opportunity of satisfaction, and your emotional hunger will continue to grow along with your waistline.

About The Author:

Dr Roger Gould is the creator of the Shrink Yourself emotional eating program.

This 12 week online program helps you end your emotional dependence on food and break free from emotional eating.

Click here for more information on the Shrink Yourself program

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